"soulmates" cont.

This a continuation of "soulmates." I personally believe that God only has a general plan, and no matter what happens, it's going to happen and the fianl outcome is going to be the same. Since we do have free will not everything we do is going to be in His plan. If we do something that has disrupted His plan He WILL find a way to put something back on course. So He has a general plan and then plans that come around when we do something stupid. Does He know if you are going to love Him or not, or if you are going to go to heaven? Do you think that He has already planned every single little thing out? I believe God gets surprised, He has moods and hasn't looked into the future and seen what you are going to do when you're 50. That's what I believe, otherwise we would not have free will nor would we have good or evil. In my opinion if God planned everything out then there wouldn't even be such things like that. If God planned for some poeple to love Him and some people to not love Him, but he wants everyone to love Him, do you think that that pretty much gives Him the credibility of retarted? When Jesus was casting out demons the pharisees thought that he was a demon himself, and Jesus was like "Why would a demon cast out a demon?" Same rule here: Why would God plan for people to love Him and people to not love Him if He has planned EVERYTHING? Now when it comes to the "right" one, would it make sense to pick someone for a certain someone, give them free will, and make divorce a sin? Not every one knows what God wants, and in fact a lot of people are confused on what His voice is and what their head is. If the "right" one was actually a true thing and you were to marry someone because you thought that he was the "one" but he wasn't, you're screwed from finding the right one. Only alternative is to divorce, which is a sin unless your spouse commits adultry. Now you marry a person (still asuming that the "right" one is a true thing) you find out from God that that person isn't the right one and that person never commits adultry. You are pretty much required to live in a mistake. I honestly don't think God would want us to get screwed like that. So here we are: finding someone that fits you or finding this "right" person that people think God has put out in the world somewhere.